Hilda Cang

My Flaw As A Human That Is...



Posted: Thursday, October 27, 2011

by Hilda Cang

No one is born flawless and so am I. We are all flawed in some way. From my childhood to teens and to my adulthood, I had have a series of flaws within me which were discouraging but all flaws can be eliminated through storm beaten, at least, I believed so when I came to my senses many years later. Since no perfection ever exists among humans, the flaw in you does not define to determine your whole being will stay forever that lousy way. We are humans and there's bound to be certain flaws in our personal characters that we may think it's normal and natural or even assume it's comfortable but not quite, we are not our best judge, others are. Think about it. That's no wonder the world is full of criticism, complaints and jealousy.

As a teenager then, I was stubborn and a swellhead. I wanted my way.  My mother was unhappy when I decided on something I wanted to do, like travelling with my friends to another town after our hectic year end exam purely for a break. She was against the idea and stopped me but my friends had already packed and up and running. I went ahead without saying goodbye to her. I knew she was hurt but I was even more hurt in my own way of thinking back then. I thought she was wrong and I was right. How awful, Hilda. But who doesn't misbehave once in a while during their adolescence and act rebellious towards their parents, sinfully , out of selfishness ?

I had stumbled, like humpty-dumpty had a great fall, but I stood up and walked  and I learnt my lesson well over the years. cool

Now, having my own family is no difference. My girls want to do something on their own and I am ever ready to let them fly because my very flaw has got something to do with freedom. ( I wonder whether it's classified as a flaw ? )

Anyhow, it is not the flaw that bothers. It's already there. What matters is how can we change from bad to good and one by one, we rid off the harmful flaws that still remain in our lives so that we can be a better person.
Flawed.
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